Sometimes in a relationship either one of the parties says that they need some space in order to clear their own feelings. In many cases it is the man who asks space because he is too afraid to end the relationship directly.
Nevertheless, in many occasions the ex really needs some own space. They may have some concerns and responsibilities that are always on their mind, and they don’t want to worry their partner about them. It is possible that they sincerely don’t want to hurt their partner’s feelings. That is why they need to solve these problems on their own.
The most important thing to remember, when trying to win your ex back, is to respect his or her feelings and wishes. You cannot force them to love you, or expect them to do everything you want them to do. However, it is also important that they know your own feelings.
Make the ex feel comfortable and to know that it is important for them to figure out their feelings. Being in a relationship is not just important to the individual. It should matter what both individuals feelings are.
To get ex back, the partner needs to remember to value how they feel about themselves. If the ex is requesting some space, it is not a good idea for the partner to force themselves upon their ex.
This can push the ex completely out of the picture. Give them time to figure out their feelings and work through whatever emotions or issues the ex needs to take care of.
It is very possible that the ex does not want to involve their former partner in whatever issue is happening. This can be a great sign. This may show that the ex values their former partner and truly does want to be with them, but feels that they need to be separate while taking care of whatever it is that needs to be resolved.
Some ex’s are asking space because they are deciding whether they want to continue in the relationship. When this happens, the partner usually has a feeling that the relationship has changed.
Although one may fear this outcome, if the feeling of the relationship coming to an end is there, it probably is time to end it. Just because one partner desires the relationship to continue, does not mean that is in the best interest for both parties involved.
To get your boyfriend back, or girlfriend, remember their feelings. However, you need to remember to not devalue your own self-worth. Remember both parties and what is in the best interest for both, and do not let the ex take advantage of the situation. If the relationship appears to be over, it probably is.