There isn’t anything like the pain of being rejected by the man you adore. One minute you’re the most beautiful girl in the world and the next you mean nothing! Hey? What’s going on? This isn’t something which just occurs overnight, it’ll have been brewing for a long time, unfortunately you have not been able to see the signs. If you don’t want this to take place all over again and you want the very best chance of attracting him back, you need to read the remainder of this article.
I have to emphasize how important it is not to go dashing back to your ex whilst you are still upset, you really will have to be relaxed and collected before you go any further. There’s certainly no quicker means of turning your ex off than sobbing and shouting hysterically, so steer clear of this at all cost. You need to stay out of your ex- ex’s way for a few weeks right now, so that you can provide him as well as your self time for you to reflect. Do not keep sending him sms messages either – you’ll just annoy your ex and he will wind up switching his mobile phone off – how is that going to help matters?
I’m certain you’ll have a 1000 questions in your head at this time like ‘why did he leave? As well as just what can make a man stop loving a woman? Before you can answer these questions, you need to understand a small bit about men. It’s really important to be aware of the psychological differences between men and females: for example if your man spends a lot of time at work a woman often see him as self-centered whilst the guy believes he’s doing what’s right in providing for his family. Women however believe that relationship building ought to be the number one priority, therefore you can see where the problem lies here. If one little difference like this can cause problems, you can see why it is so important to understand a bit more about the male mind.
If a male remains physically attracted to a women there’s much more chance he will stay. Don’t you think we’re all guilty of this occasionally? We entice our guy by putting on sexy clothing and high heels, then once the honey moon period has ended we relax and don’t make a great deal of effort – oh dear! Indeed I believe it’s acceptable to wear your pajamas around the house sometimes, however when you begin to live in them (and I have in fact noticed moms wearing pajamas when dropping their kids off at school) that’s when it begins to cause a problem. One more reason for men to stop experiencing the attraction they once felt is if you’ve gained too much weight since you first met – a couple of pounds probably won’t hurt however if it’s many pounds you simply aren’t going to be the same woman he first fell in love with. I hate being the bearer of bad tidings here, but I’m afraid it is a well known fact, but look on the bright side, it is totally under your control.
The following is a short paragraph on what men want and don’t want – perhaps you will be able to relate to some of them?
Men just adore women who can make them FEEL GOOD about themselves. In order for men to feel good, they have to receive plenty of praise and admiration instead of constant criticism. Men also hate to be nagged and if it happens too often they tend to just switch off – Are you guilty of this? Men like their freedom sometimes, which is quite normal. All men expect a healthy sex life – without it they will feel deprived. What Men want and don’t want:
- No. 1 All a man wants from a relationship is to FEEL GOOD – simple!
- No.2 They want to feel appreciated.
- No. 3 No man would be happy without affection, admiration and praise.
- No. 4 Men like to have some space – it’s quite normal for a man to want to go off on his own sometimes.
So what don’t they like?
- No. 5 Men don’t like being nagged all the time.
- No. 6 If a woman is too demanding, a man feels like a failure.
- No. 7 Most men shy away from clingy or needy women.
- No. 8 Men don’t want to be in a sexless relationship.
Here’s just a few fact’s about men:
- 1 Men love women who make them FEEL GOOD, so give them praise and admiration as well as affection.
- 2. Men like to be proud of their woman, so make the best of your appearance.
- 3 Don’t forget that all men like a bit of excitement at times..
- 4 It would be unusual if a man didn’t want time for himself, most men need this.
- 5 One can’t over-estimate the importance of a fulfilling sex life to a man.
- 6 The male ego can be deeply hurt if they feel that they can’t live up to a woman’s expectations.
-7 Men cant cope with being nagged at constantly..
Have you been able to see yourself in any of the above problems? If so, you’ll need to get to work, there’s still a lot to do. Have any of the above points enlightened you? This is just an insight into the male psyche, but hopefully it has been an eye opener..
Hopefully, by now you may have some kind of idea as to why your boyfriend dumped you and what improvements you can make. Now it’s time to move to step two which is ‘how to get him back again’ – I’m not saying it’s going to be easy, but if you follow the proven tactics, it is certainly possible. Do you think you’re ready to move on? I hope so because the next stage is how to be the kind of woman men adore and how to get him back.